today we watched the video on how the guy got this chick prego and how he decided to keep the baby.
what i think there is a whole bunch of things that pressures a guy to have sex. first of all the drugs could have a huge impact on the guy. then there is the chick how she acts and what she is wearing. if you look like a skankie hoe then of course the guy will get turned on and he will want to have sex right there. then there is media telling young boys to go out there and try it out saying it will make you feel like a man and so on. like it might feel good but if they just go and have sex and not use protection they will be screwed like the boy from the movie but then again protection don't work 100% so there is a chance of the chick to get prego.
for girls its the same thing they get pressured by friends media. they think that if they don't have sex no one will like them or they might think that its cool to have sex. thats good if they just have sex and not get pregnant but what if they do what will they do next will they keep the baby give it up and have am abortion. and even if they do give it up something will be missing like a part of you will be gone and you wont be the one whole person you ounce used to be. or what if you decide to keep it your still in school have to get a job to support that baby thats great if your parents and the guy help out but what if they don't want anything to do with you or your baby. now your on your own dropped out don't have a place to live cant support the baby now what ? so the best thing to do is not to have sex at all and just wait till your ready and can support a baby if you need to or just wait till your marriage.
if both of you are taking drugs that is a huge problem because first of all both of you don't know what you are doing so your likely to do things you normally wouldn't do so sex is deferentially on that list and who knows what will follow after.
just stay away from all that bad stuff. listen to that little voice inside of you.
